Good morning
Welcome Lcon - I am glad you found us and posted. It is always hard to lose someone we love but it seems especially so at times that are usually associated with happiness. Not only is your father no longer there but you spent your first Christmas without him.
Debbie123, I have been thinking about you and the life changing events you have experienced. I am glad you are able to take time and think about your mom and Freckles. It's hard I know. Are you also able to have some time with friends and family?
It's always a balance between grieving and being thankful for what was - not sure if you saw the thread Two sides of the same coin Another member, Oldbat posted there as well.
What are some of your memories of Christmas with your parents Lcon and Debbie123? Do you have family and friends who support you?
Katherine