Hi
Carlyn I really appreciate your 'bottom lines'. Debbie123 it sounds like your work is a wonderful support for you - good to have that anchor.
When my husband died, I was ready to sell the house, move, do anything to get away. I'm glad I didn't do anything quickly - In my head I knew that it would not be wise to make any big changes or moves in the first year - but in my heart I just wanted to do anything that might help take the pain away. And as Carlyn said I find it's so important to work through the sadness and grief but to live as well. Not always an easy balance.
LostNL started how do you go on earlier this year after her mother died. I was thinking that along with Carlyn's great support you might find it helpful to read of others' experiences.
Are there people you can turn to when your daughter leaves?
Katherine