Thank you everyone for your kind words of wisdom. My therapist suggested that I go back on line and discuss what I have been going through. Putting words on paper seems to console me some how.
I understand the emotions that I go through. Been there, done that kind of feeling. Then you wonder what started all the sadness again that never left. I guess I though it did. And you are right, it could be a picture, and possibly Valentine’s Day approaching.
I understand the seeping of emotions creeps up on you. Just when I thought my waking in the morning of Avery’s last moments was over, they come back with a vengeance.
My expectations of where I would be after almost two years since Avery’s passing, are perhaps too much for me to attain. Figuring that I would be past the crying stage off and on, and on to a new life. I think that perhaps after 40 years, things won’t change as much as I want them to. I am expecting too much all at once and change comes gradually. I guess we are all impatient in the pursuit of happiness. Just when you think you have your life planned out, God throws you a curve ball that’s hard to catch!
Regards, Jane