Good evening Marstin and Liticia,
Just want to remark on what amazing women you are! As you move through this painful time of grieving, you courageously face all your feelings, your hearts are open to love and loss, and despite the rollercoaster of ups and downs, you do keep getting up each morning, and walking into the unknown. I am very glad that you have family and friends with whom you can share this journey. And I am humbled that you bring your most beautiful and vulnerable selves to this forum.
Thank you for taaching me, each in your own way, that every moment is precious, as our time here on earth is short - sometimes too short! Most precious of all is the love we expereince. Despite your great losses, I am so very happy that you were married to such loving partners. Their love is now part of you, and gives you strength.
No doubt your weather has been similar to mine over the last few days. Today was to be cloudy and snowy. And yet, we were treated to the surprise gift of sun this morning. So much like life. When we least expect it, sun breaks through the clouds. At the end of this day, and at this beginning of the month of March, I wish you little gifts of sunshine to give you the energy to go on.
Plum1