Tracie, Nikki, and all viewers of this post,
Merry Christmas, Happy Memories, be warmed as Tracie said by the love and warmth of past celebrations - and give that warmth and love back to the ones in your circle, your family, your children, your friends, whover shares this holiday with you.
Tracie I admire your brave face forward despite the loss, the financial stress, the complications and worries. I send you hugs and wanted to say that this Christmas season I am focussing myself on others around me who are alone - for the holidays. I have one friend my age who is isolated and we are planning a meal together. Another neighbour who has hardly anyone to check in her, has become one of my extended families, popping in to give her a hug, bring her soup or cookies - or just a smile.
We we all hurt with our losses, challenges, and now we can relate to many others right in our area who need us to add something to their lonely world.
Frankly I enjoy every hug I give because in so doing I get a hug back! :)
grief and loss is something that we all learn the feeling of, if we don't know it - then we have not yet lost a loved one. Love matters, love hurts, love is missed, and I don't say that lightly.
i think of my mom daily, now that she is gone. I miss her and I learned from her. No one went hungry or thirsty from her house. No one missed having a hug or having heard a prayer of support as they continued their day, or journey.
i am not really religious but I am spiritual - I know we all have something inside that lives on - and that spirit is with you, each of you that mourn loss.
Be happy for the time you shared and the warmth that love brought you... And yes, never forget...but remember those loved ones, mom, husband, wife, chikd or young adult - and what they gave you in the name of love....and pass it on.
sending each of you big hugs today and through the next week....
i know you are going to make memories this Holiday Season too;)
with thoughts and encouragement,
NatR :)