Hi Lou and Missie
Reading your posts I was reminded of something I once heard, 'Grief takes as long as it takes'. But as you say Lou, activities like reading, walking the dog, - doing things that give you pleasure can sure help get through.
Jorola started the thread so scared but somehow i need to find a way to be strong and also posted to What pets can do. It sounds like you may both have experiences with the joys of owning a pet.
Lou, you may know about Nanaimo Community Hospice, but they offer support to those who are grieving.
The article Grief Work might offer some suggestions as well.
I am thinking of you both as you walk along a new road.
Katherine