Dear Caite,
I’m sorry it’s been such a tough time for you – on all fronts. Do you have close friends or other family who might be able to perhaps help with some of the paper work and ‘be there for you’?
I wondered if you might find this link - Programs and Services - of help. It lists resources available across the country. I hope the personal counselling is providing you with support.
As Marstin said, moving ahead is difficult. You might be interested in looking at Per’s thread Learning about caring for and losing a sick spouse.
I think you are wise to take one day at a time. Look forward to hearing how things are unfolding for you.
Take care
Katherine