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19 Aug 2013, 1:03 AM

Suzanne, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Sending you virtual hugs, GWTBB.
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Reply by NatR
27 Aug 2013, 12:16 PM

Hi Suzanne,

i am thinking of you today.  I hope that where you are the Sun shines:)

i do hope that you are comfortable, that you can see out a window, feel the warmth of the breeze.
sending you a cyber hug,

NatR xx 
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Reply by passirose
27 Aug 2013, 3:31 PM

Hello sweet friends,

Thank you for your kind words, I really appreciate them and I'm sorry for the delay to reply.  Time is my ennemy, I don't have enough to do all I want, so I wil cheat.  If I cannot be at the 18th birthday of my daughter (next year), I willl arrange to celebrate next week.Smile

My mobility is good, my spirit is ok, my medication is perfect, for the time beign, I have only my basic pain med, but have ready in hand statex and ativan if I feel depressed.  Not for the moment, I accept my emotions and let them flow.

Of course the chemo is taking is due, I am out of order 2 days per week, and each week a little more tire, but my breathing is improving a bit and that is enough to encourage me to continue that way.

I am even thinking of maybe a week vacation away with hubby, the very very last one.  

We'll see.  Now oxygen is ready and installed at home, I don't like it but when I will have difficulty breating I will be happy it will be there.

Hugs to you all, will try to keep you update, or Colleen my friend and administrator will update.  

Suzanne    
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Reply by cocopham
27 Aug 2013, 8:13 PM

Bien chère Suzanne, un grand bonjour ensoleillé!

Merci pour vos nouvelles, merci de prendre le temps de nous écrire; je sais que c'est un grand effort de s'asseoir devant l'ordi pour écrire et je vous embrasse pour cet effort malgré vos faiblesses dues au traitement de chimio...

Comment va votre fille? elle va avoir 18 ans bientot et je suis sûre qu'elle est très courageuse et vous soutient durant ces moments difficiles...

OUI Suzanne, si c'est physiquement possible, faites ce que vous désirez le plus: partir en vacances avec votre mari ....Mes prières vont dans ce sens là pour que vous puissiez réaliser ce petit souhait....Smile

Avec toutes mes profondes amitiés et prières ardentes,
Grosses bises,

cocopham 
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Reply by NatR
23 Sep 2013, 10:40 PM

Dear Passirose,

i am sending thoughts your way tonight, hoping that each day has one amazing memory in it.

I do hope you are taking care of you and that September is glowing with the yellows, oranges and reds with the changing tapestry of our forests.

i wanted you to know that you have been in my thoughts,
sending you a big fuzzy cyber hug ( not as good as the real thing) <HUG>
natR 
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Reply by eKIM
23 Sep 2013, 10:53 PM

Hello Passirose

All of your V H friends are thinking about you.  Keep up your postings.  We want to hear from you.  .  eKim
 
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Reply by passirose
24 Sep 2013, 1:58 AM

Hello sweet friends,

Seems like the chemo is doing his job my breathing is improving, I don't feel like I'm dying out of breath.   We'll know more this week about this.

Dr's and nurse and inhalator are coming every 2 weeks instead of every.  Ok I do take some oxygen here and there for couple of hours when needed.  But not so often as I was thinking.

I do enjoy every moment with my family and friends. And my virtual friends.  Really.

Hugs to you,

Suzanne
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Reply by walking marie
29 Sep 2013, 6:45 PM

Hello Suzanne,
I have not been on in awhile.  So sorry to know you are having such a tough time....I pray you will feel better soon, 
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Reply by cocopham
03 Apr 2014, 11:45 AM

Bonjour Suzanne,

J'ai lu votre message avec beaucoup d'émotion, en même temps impuissante à vous donner l'aide vitale nécessaire pour vous aider à respirer....

Et pourtant malgré ce souffle de vie qui parfois se fait difficile, vous vous accrochez avec détermination et votre courage est sans mesure! Suzanne, malgré mon silence depuis un bout de temps, je suis toujours les conversations en silence....et mes pensées et prières vous entourent intensément, car je crois en l'aide divine...

Nous sommes tous et toutes ici pour vous écouter et vous lire, bien chère Suzanne et nous sommes avec vous dans vos souffrances en nos pensées....Ayant travaillé dans les soins palliatifs pendant des années, et avoir été témoin des souffrances des patients, je ressens profondément le désarroi que cela peut engendrer.
Lorsque vous le pouvez et si cela vous soulage quelque peu, ne vous arrêtez pas d'écrire, car nous sommes là à votre écoute.....
Je sais que beaucoup d'entre nous vous portent dans leur coeur, profondément et ardemment, soyez assurée de notre affection et nos prières intenses...

Que la tendresse divine vous porte chaque jour,

cocopham
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Reply by eKIM
03 Apr 2014, 3:38 PM

Hello Suzanne

I love the “sweet friends” greeting.  Can strangers be “sweet friends”?  Yes, I definitely do believe so.  It is possible in all aspects of life.  Modern forms of social media simply represent the current vehicle.  For my grandfather, it was short wave radio – he was a ham radio enthusiast.  He had great “Virtual Friends” all over the world.  Just kind souls reaching out to souls of a kind.

There is simply something in your writing that tells me that you too are a sweet soul, Suzanne.

One of the reasons that “virtual strangers” can become “virtual friends” is that “When a hurting soul reaches out, and a compassionate soul responds, then something magical and mysterious occurs.”  The “bonding” is such that words fall with failure when explanations are attempted.

Suzanne, we hear (a Freudian slip) at Virtual Hospice extend our hearts to you, sweet girl. 

Let us know how you are doing.  Use us as a sounding board, whenever you need to.  Why do we reach out to you?  Very simply it is in gratitude for the virtual strangers who will reach out to us WHEN it is our turn.

e-Kim

ps  Today, in the Virtual Hospice “Discussion Forums – Reflections and Inspiration” section, I posted a quote titled, “The Compassionate Listener”.  If you have time, please read it and perhaps offer an opinion.

A compassionate listener  - eKim
 

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