Hi Charneypam:
It's lovely to hear from you again!:) No apologies necessary as I just wanted you to know I haven't forgotten about you. Please never feel responsible to check in with me unless you feel the need and have the time. It sounds like you have very little time for yourself these days so I'm sure each moment you have to focus on your own life and needs feels precious.
How sad tp hear that your aunt is not doing better not that I was expecting to hear differently. Has she accepted any more help from her doctor? It's very sad to think that she resists help when so much is available to her, but I can't judge her decisions. She has her reasons and if she is comfortable with how things are going no one can second guess her. Some people feel a stronger sense of control when coping with illness by keeping their experience and their emotions very private. I can relate in a way because I am an extremely private person and I would want to feel some sense of control over my health if it were in deep jeopardy.
I'm glad you are able to enjoy walking the dog while getting outside for fresh air and it's nice that your aunt gets a visit from you and the dog every second day. You must be a big source of comfort to her - as is the dog I'm sure. Just knowing someone in the world is so loyal and devoted to her must gladden her heart - and I'm meaning you - not the dog!:)
It's not an easy time for your aunt or for you Charneypam and I hope this Spring will see things improve somehow. It's got to be hard to keep up with such a full schedule while working, caring for your own family and watching out for your aunt. I'll be thinking of you both and of course you are in my heart and my prayers.
Remember to take time to take care of you too!:) ps I'm doing fine and thanks for asking - ever thoughtful you are!:)