Welcome,
I am glad you found us Adet – did someone refer you to the Virtual Hospice Discussion group?
Knowing someone we love is facing serious illness is hard, especially when, as NatR said, we can't touch them or see them face to face. The time difference could also make it hard for you and your family to connect with your brother. Perhaps you and your brother could talk about everything and anything before he was sick, but now as you say it’s hard. You might find the words in the article What Do I Say? helpful. It was written by the Canadian Virtual Hospice team.
Guilt – it seems to stick like glue and can make us so tired and confused. It sounds like your brother made the hard decision to stay in Canada for treatment because he felt the care would be better here. Does knowing that give you some comfort ?
Take care dear Adet and come back and talk as you can.
Katherine