Dear Barb & NatR,
I just need to repeat what NatR said about your Doc's comment to you. That was about the most insensitive comment he/she could have made. Absolutely no feelings for you as the caregiver at all. Just shows again what damage one person can do with ill spoken words. I just hope that you can get those words out of your mind and cary on as only you know best. You have done such a marvelous job.
NatR, I hope that today you can focus on the positive things, as you told Barb and have a great day. Wishing you both the best.
Brayden