Dear Tian,
Thank you for your kindness and support. As hard as this is I can not see myself any place else. Unfortunately this particular cancer spreads very fast not leaving you with much time for unfinished business. I was given a book last night from her nurse(She is receiving palliative care)which explained allot about the dying process and what I am seeing. Your web site helped me in understanding her body no longer craves food or water. I do have my other sister and family staying with me so we are a team. My sister and I spend long hours at her bedside in addition to my dying sisters family. Little things like doing laundry or making the bed are somehow comforting. Typical daily life recharges your batteries.
I would like to thank you again for the opportunity to share my thoughts and feelings in this forum. I would also like to say that you write beautifully