Hi Tracie,
Well, keeping busy keeps my mind busy too; I find myself going into a bit of a depression! If I don't keep busy, then all I would do is sleep. I want to get some baking done today, but just can't get up to do it. I've also been quite emotional; any little thing he says, and I burst out crying. I'm watching him wither away before my eyes. He's quite tall (about 1 foot taller than me...obviously, I'm quite short); and his waist is getting to be smaller than mine :( I'm worried, but he says, this is the down part and he's not out, he just needs to get past this!!!! I guess he saw the worry in my eyes!
I'm glad your meetings start up again; it's tough when they put everything on hold for the summer; like your pain and need for talking just goes on a vacation too!
YES, my daughter finally found a job. We had a chat about her recent actions, and she said she basically fell apart, after pulling herself back together when she fell off her meds! She just couldn't get it together, no matter how hard she tried. I guess that's a part of her illness. I'm going for lunch tomorrow with my two oldest girls. They are both in the city for the day. The 2nd oldest is expecting, and the doctor's are sending her here to get an ultra sound. I'm sure I'll find out tomorrow why!!! Never a dull moment in our lives hey????? The oldest is just picking her sister up from the airport and driving her around. So I promised them banana/blueberry bread. Mom's never stop giving hey??? I agree with you about the "children/kids" now a days. But, I take full responsibility for the way my girls are. I taught them to stand up for themselves, because I wasn't raised that way! I also taught them to speak their mind, which blows up in my face way too often. However, I know they do speak their minds, politely too....just not to mom :0
I hope your daughters help you out with your home! I'm sending you a lot of positive vibes/thoughts to get you through this hard time right now. I know it seems like it always is "hard times" but one day, you will look back and realize how strong you were (and still are) because not only did you live through it, you fared pretty darn good through it too! I keep trying to remember the "good old days" when things were so easy and my life was quite simple. I'm not too sure for the reason we are put in our current situations, but I know I will find out one day...I always seem to find out the "why".
I just re-read my posting, and my depression is shining through. I could just sit her all day and just bawl my eyes out. Right now they still hurt from this mornings cry. Geesh, I need to pull myself together. I was feeling sorry for myself this morning, thinking I'm always the caregiver, ever since I was a little girl and had to help raise my brother's and sisters. I guess that's why Don and I are together. The higher power knew he would need someone someday, who gives and gives. Mind you, he's been taking care of me for a majority of our relationship. So, it's time to give back.
I spoke with my mom last night; the good news is her cancer is now in remission. She would like to visit us, but at this time,I just can't think of a good time for her to visit. Hubby has another surger on October 22, then afterwards, 6 bouts of chemo every 21 days. I guess I'll research the internet for flights and get her down here to visit!
Well, I hope your session went well and you managed to get it all out...for now...take care my dear friend. I am sending you a big hug, positive thoughts, sunshine, smiles and prayers. Take care,
Deb