Hi Tracie,
Well, the snow is here to stay...oh well, at least it didn't snow until November! I hope you had a good weekend, I still have 2 more days off (Mon &Tue); looking forward to Tuesday, as my daughter and granddaughter will be back on their schedule! It's been such a trying weekend! Do you want to hear about it? LOL. Well, I shall tell ya about it.
I took Friday afternoon off, so hubby and I could spend it together, perhaps get out and go for lunch. Well, he wasn't feeling well, so we just hung out at the house! He's been in a lot of pain since early last week and it just didn't get any better. At least today, he's eating a wee bit, not much, but he's eating!
On Friday night, my daughter and I got into a huge argument. I can't even remember about what...it was about her not taking her pills! I of course, contacted a friend on FB then called him to talk about it. He basically said, you're a good mom, tomorrow you will make up with her and all this will be water under the bridge. I really didn't think it was going to happen...but on Saturday morning, she comes up stairs all happy; so I apologized and told her I'm just concerned for her and don't want her to have any episodes! We talked abit and all is good now. Then on Saturday, my sister came to visit! Well, that was quite the experience. She is about 5 years younger than I and looks about 15 years older than me. My goodness, when they rang the door bell I went to answer it, and I didn't recognize her at first because she's aged so much and has lost so much weight! Her and her hubby came in and started arguing right away. My goodness, they were supposed to stay the night...and I was going to listen to this all night. Anyway, my sister proceeded to drink her rum and coke...anyway, to get to the point, they didn't stay the night. I don't think I could've handled it! All they did was talk about what the other did to them and tried to make the other spouse look bad! Her hubby wasn't drinking, which was good, as he was driving back home (about 1.5 hours away from our home). She kept saying how she wished she had my life and how good I have it! Goodness, I've worked hard for this life; I've suffered for this life; and I just told her, to be careful what she wishes for! My life isn't all what it's cracked up to be...especially this weekend. It took a lot out of me to have them visit. Earlier that day, she called my mom and told her she's going to visit Deb because Deb needs her...sheesh! There was definiately no taking care of Deb going on!
Now we're onto Sunday! Hubby still isn't feeling well; he's basically bedroom ridden again! What a fall back. So this morning we were talking and he said he wanted breakfast, so I went to go make it. While making it, he made a comment about eat...so I asked him, "does that mean you have your appetite back?" He said, Deb, that's not what I said, don't assume that! Wow, well, that started the tears and fireworks. I was making chicken stew and toasting his bagel. When I brought it too him, I said, I wasn't assuming anything. And you don't have to be rude to me...I don't deserve that! Then I got my winter clothes on, and went for a nice long walk in the cold...bawling my eyes out...wondering why those who I take care of feel they can hurt me over and over again! ARGGGGGHHHH. When I finished my walk, I finished cooking the stew. Took my granddaughter out to go sliding...when I came home, it was about 3 hours since our little spat. I went up to our room to start getting ready (shower) to start my day...LOL...and he apologized; so of course we hugged and made up! then I took my granddaughter out to the library to pick up books for her to read; then we went out for a late lunch (lupper... lunch/supper). that was my weekend so far! Just give, give, give. Sometimes I get so tired of all this crap and wish to just walk away from it all.
Ahhhh, the memories. At least we still have that hey! yes, you did mention Len and his taxes; what a horrible burden to have to go through. You could've saved yourself a lot of money; if you sent all the papers to CRA they would've done your taxes for you! Did you know that?
I don't know what's going on with my family...I have one daughter who just broke up with her boyfriend (3 years); she wasn't happy and they continuously argued; he's now stalking her. The bad thing is...he's our neighbour!!!! She had to change her cell number; so he moved on to FB; then she blocked him. I told her next thing he'll call the house. He hasn't yet!!!! That's my youngest. My oldest was supposed to get married in Mar/14; and on Friday, she told me they're breaking up!!!! Don't know what's in the water! the only thing about the youngest breaking up with her beau...is she's home all the time now. Before, she would be at his place for the weekend, and during the week (our granddaughter would sleep her though).
Well, I hope your niece came over to help you out...I've been purchasing lotto tickets, hoping to win so I could share the wealth!
Happy birthday to Len today! Let me know if you did anything special. Take care my dear friend; I hope you had a sunny day today, the sun shone on us for about an hour, before sunset. I had a great day with my granddaughter...oh yes, we made banana chocolate chip pancakes Saturday morning! I don't know what I have in store for tomorrow. I don't have any plans. I purchased meat to make braised beef and beef bourginon (sp?); so I may do that tomorrow. On Tuesday, well, that's going to be a cleaning day!
Hugs to you, Deb