Hi Tracie,
I JUST CAN'T BELIEVE HOW HEARTLESS YOUR BROTHER CAN BE!!!! How dare he talk ill of your Len!!!! That just infuriates me But good for you, taking it like a grain of salt. You are one strong woman my dear buddy!
Well, things are finally looking up - Don is going ahead with his surgery and will have a minor one in early August for his liver. He's still trying to figure out what the Dr's are going to do about the lung; so on that front, still waiting. It's sunny here today; daughter's on her meds; granddaughter is slowly getting to know her mommy again; and surgery is happening; I will be off work for the month of July to take care of hubby; so I can actually smile today .
Well, with the lay off letter, I have until December to decide if I want to relocate to Winnipeg (YUCK - NOT); then once I deny the relocation, then I will have 120 days to decide what option I would like to do (education leave; go on a priority list; or just quit); then after that I have 1 year to go ahead with one of my options, so, basically, I have until March 31, 2015 - however, I will be short 3 years from retirement, so would need to find a job between now and 2015...good luck to me...
I guess with your brother visiting rarely is a blessing in disguise. My goodness, the moment one of my brother's step in my home, I put them to work. They don't live near me, not even in the same province, so visits are rare.
Somedays, it's good when the god's shine upon us, and realize, just that one little gesture can add bounce to our steps and brighten our moods. Some days...not all!!!!
I'm glad your group session went well - good to hear, as I was a bit worried about you, and good to hear you let it all out. My heart goes out to you, it's so painful to talk about the death of a loved one. Here's a great big hug for you [] (don't know what the emoticon for hug is...lol).
Well, never a day goes by that something eventful happens...and it did exactly that yesterday morning. Don and I were leaving for work, and our neighbour was standing outside her garage, arms folded and just staring off to the distance. I said, Good Morning, she looked at me with anger...said, morning! Then said, "Can I ask you a question?" I said of course, and stepped towards her. She said, "Are you having an affair with my husband?" I was taken aback and said NO. Don was in the car and the windows were closed. I pointed towards him and said, I'm very much in love with my husband, I would never have an affair! She said, you and your daughter, I saw both of you having sex with my husband. I was shocked and said, NO, we don't have sex with your husband. I gestured for Don to roll down his window and he did. I said, she thinks me and Cheryl are having an affair with her husband; she says we are having sex with her husband. At this point, he didn't say anything. She pointed her finger at me and said "it's shameful, both of you, having sex with my husband. I've seen it, my children have seen it, just shameful". I continued to defend myself and told her I was not having sex with her husband! Then, she told me, she had to move her bedroom from this side of the house to the other side, because me and my daughter were using our "invisible powers" to have sex with her husband. This is when I finally realized she was not mentally well, and discontinued the defence! She kept talking and accusing me as I jumped in the car. Don kept saying, sorry about that, to her accusations, because no matter what she says, she believes me and my daughter are having an affair and we have powers and use them to have sex with him. Wowsers, I was shocked. Later that afternoon, I had to go home by myself to pick something up. I was terrified, shaking and so nervous about seeing her. Low and behold, as I was pulling into our neighbourhood, so was our neighbour's husband . I was hoping the wife wasn't spying and looking out the window, I just pulled into our garage and closed it immediately, ignoring him fully; as I usually talk to him and talk about whatever, nope, not this time!!!!!! I did what I had to do and got the heck out of there! Now this has put our neighbour relationship at an awkward state. Again, I'm still in shock and now worried about their family. They have 4 children!
Ahhhhhh life, seems to just throw curves at you just to let you know who really has the power, NOT ME! Well, the weekend is here, thank goodness. Happy Aboriginal Day! Hapyy Summer Solstice Day! And just, happy day! Sending you positive thoughts, sunshine and a big ole smile, just because! Take care Tracie, enjoy your weekend. Take time out for yourself, either to treat yourself or just to think positive thoughts about yourself, or do both. You deserve it! I'm envious of your strength and marvel at it! But also, worry that you should be taking care of yourself too! Big E-HUGS!!!!
Deb