It has been a lot of time since I have written. I have been reading a lot of other peoples posts and have found comfort in them. I realize that there are so many of us out there dealing with terminal illness.
My husband is just continuing to slowly detererate. It is so hard some days to watch him lossing more and more. It makes me so sad. I have been having a hard time sleepiong. I wake up in the night and can't seem to get my mind to shut down. I have tried "going to a happy place", taking over the counter and prescription sleepign pills. But they make me feel so depressed the next day that it isn't worth it.
I still can get out of the house for a few hours at a time and have been doing some volunteer work and go for walks with a friend on a regular basis, weather permitting. But sometimes the sadness overwhelms me.
How do you deal with the long term slowly deterierating of someone you love. Most of the time I can deal with the physical aspects of his detererating. It was hard when I had to help my mother and then my mother-in-law with the daily dressing, undressing etc. But I never thought I would have to also do it for my husband. Today I am just so sad. I seem to tear up over any little thing. And knowing this could still go on for an undetermined amount of time it hard. I do try to take it one day at a time, but sometimes it is just overwhelming and I just want to sit and cry and have a pity party.
I do have good friends who I see, but not as often as I need. I have always been a caregiver and it is hard to realize that sometimes I need someone to take care of me. It is hard to reach out and ask for that care.
I appreciate this forum where I can express how I feel and realize that noone will think less of me for not being the strong one all the time. I don't like feeling so vunerable.