Hi Paula,
Thank you for taking the time to give us an update. I think you and your brother are incredible. Your mom I'm sure is feeling all of the love that you are giving her. When it is close to the end, it is a peaceful yet heartbreaking time. You have given as much as you can. I remember my mom's passing and how the family spent days with her and we all relived happier days. On the day that she did pass, it was just my brother and I by her bedside. As tough as it was, I told her it was okay to let go and soon after she did. Gone was the suffering and the struggling to keep going. It's never easy to say goodbye and losing two people back to back is incredibly difficult. There are no words that can be said to help you deal with this other than to say, we are here.
Many hugs to you,
Tracie