So, we are still waiting....seems that we are in a constant administration loop. The hospitalist/doctor we have had said he was forwarding papers, etc. But, we phoned Kingston and they have no recollection of him calling. We have had to call the neurosurgeon again and now the papers have been sent to Kingston. Who knows how long this might take though. At this point, we have not even had the chance to have a good discussion with an oncologist regarding prognosis/treatments.
Over the weekend my Mom started to experience more and more pain. She was moaning and calling out quite loudly. It was awful to see. As of yesterday, they have increased her pain meds (Dilaudid) and she is getting that at regular intervals. It was really hard to hear that yesterday as it all seems like a creepy deja vu and I just felt so overwhelmed by it all happening again! I found it odd that I knew exactly the pills and everything they talk to me about is way too familiar.
Here's another interesting development - my Mother's two sisters have shown up at the hospital. The thing here is...they have been estranged for over 30 years. There is so much history to this, I won't bore you. Suffice it to say, I know a lot about how they treated my Mom and really resent them showing up now. My Mom, however, in her current state was quite receptive to them. I really cannot stand them being around but am trying to suck it up for the happiness of my Mom as I know she may need this closure. I just think they are phonies and I don't like that the Doctor and nurse felt it okay to tell them all about my Mom's meds and that they had called Kingston, etc and the latest updates. They have no right to be involved in any of this! I don't want them (the sisters) to try to talk to me about how to handle anything...where have they been the last 34 years?? I am so pissed off with this situation. I do not know how to handle this extra stress and drama...I sure as hell did not need more stress!
I am going to take in copies of my power of attorney to the hospital tomorrow and tell all involved that they are to only discuss my Mom's health with me or my brother. OMG...seriously, like I need this too! UGHhhhhhh.....
Thanks for reading my rant,
Paula