Hi Razz, I am sorry I didn't reply earlier.
How are you feeling now? Have you recovered from that infection? It's not nice to be sick, especially when you are worrying about your husband.
men certainly struggle to be caregivers don't they? But there are exceptions to every rule, it's good he brought you soup - at least it showed he was thinking of you:)
It's a good thing that your husband is learning all he can about his condition. It most likely makes him feel like he has some control by learning - and it's true in a way. Knowledge gives you power to make decisions, understand, and so on.
again I apologize for the lateness of this reply.
i do hope you are feeling better.
Wishing you a good week ahead
NatR :)