Thanks, Jaindough. It's good to hear from you. natR, you are right, I have been hunkering down and carrying down. I went to visit my 85-year-old aunt, who is doing well, but she is worried about her older sister, my aunt in BC, who is so far away from Virginia, whose husband is quite sick, and who can't seem to manage on her own. How do we reach out to those so far away?
There is something about autumn that refreshes grief. Talking with my aunt reminded me so much of my mom, who died four years ago. And I cope every day with Pablo, my partner, who can't remember anything for more than 5 minutes. He still knows how to say thank you, though.
Love to all,
Nouce