Dear Loving Wife
Cath1, another member started the thread When strangers become friends. I have copied and pasted a few of the lines from the thread – I am wondering if they can help in perhaps some small way ease that loneliness. I know it cannot eliminate it.
“I do find that being able to express my thoughts and feelings in a supportive and non-judgmental environment is extremely helpful (referring to these discussion forums) Sometimes we can say among “strangers” what is nearly impossible to share with those intimately involved in our lives. There is less pressure. Here in this online community we need not accommodate anything but the truth. For me, having a safe place to talk and listen to others about life from beginning to end allows me the chance to feel I am lightening the emotional burden of my feelings for those in my own inner circle of family and friends.”
JennJilks has also started the thread My husband has Stage II Prostate Cancer .
How did you and your husband spend Valentine’s Day? I ended up inviting my extended family for supper – and it was nice. My husband had always been the one who ‘cooked the beef’ and as I pondered what to make with tears coming down my face - decided to go for ribs instead. My sister wisely said, ‘maybe you shouldn’t cook beef anymore…’
Take care LW
Katherine