Hi Loll,
I'd be happy to introduce you others going through similar circumstances here on the Virtual Hospice community. Please meet:
- NiteLad started the thread Dad won't let us help. He walked this path before you and may be able to shed some light from his perspective.
I hope you will connect with them. Do you live close to your father? Are you his primary caregiver?
Talk to you again soon I hope.
Colleen