Hi Beck
Welcome to our community. One of the things I like most about this community is that no matter where you live, there are others out there, like Jodie, who can walk beside you, online - they really get what you are saying. You might want to check out her thread so scared but somehow i need to find a way to be strong, where you will meet Marstin, NatR and Xenia and Mary M.
I am glad you found us and that you can talk about your great sadness. Do you have a regular physician, healthcare provider you could see? Someone who could help figure out what could help you the most as you help your family?
Knowing that your brother doesn't have very much time is really tough and people often have a hard time knowing what to say and do. What Do I Say? is an article that others have found helpful when spending time with people as ill as your brother.
Take care Beck
Katherine