Hello,
Welcome to our community Collette888. Thanks so much for your story and for sharing what you learned in the sadness of your dad’s death. It sounds like now, in your mother’s illness, you have found ways to care for yourself. I would imagine that helps you as you care for your mother and others in your family. I was struck by the hope I read in your post.
Even though no one else may share our exact experiences – like HopeG said the stories let us know that others understand, give others a bit of a road map and help us know there is hope. We are not alone
I see that you live some distance from your family - are you able to be with them now?
How are things for you this week HopeG?
Katherine