Hi Everybody,
Just wanted to give an update about my Mom's surgery. She did very well, lymph nodes all clear. Will not know what stage until we get path report in 3 -7 days. He thinks just radiation but can't confirm that until they get the final path report. The day of the surgery my dad was not doing too well severe stomach pain. He said he might of wanted us to take him to the ER later that day. When I went back to my mom's hospital bed I didn't know what to say to my mom when she asked how my dad was so I said he was fine and just relaxing. At that moment I had the wierdest feeling. I was extremly happy one moment and sad the next! Now my mom is doing not too bad she is just tired and achy plus last week she had a soar throat from being intibated for two hours. My dad has been having good days just more tired than he was.
I am very happy for all of this and try not to dwell on how they were before they were diagnosed. This is the new normal for my family right now and am just happy right now they are not suffering too much physically.
I feel right now is the calm before another storm but I like I said above I am trying my hardest to embrace ev ery positive moment and try not to think in the future.
Personally last week all the stress of last while manifested in severe muscle pain all over so I nutured myself and went for an hour and a half hot stone message.
Peace for all,
Sunflower