My husband while treating Hep C was found with an pancreatic neuroendocrine tumor - had a whipple surgery in January 2015, in January 2016 found that it had metastasized to liver - particle size across the entire liver. He is currently taking Afinitor to try and stop the cancer cells from multiplying and dividing. My husband is an alcoholic
I am reaching out to this forum because I have tried to be supportive all these years and if anything he drinks more and alienates himself from his adult children and grandchildren. They all came down this Christmas and he spent more time out in his shop then inside and participating in any meals
How do you help someone that is on this self destructive path? It has left me feeling I just want it to be over which is not my nature.