I hope you had a restful, much needed sleep. At least for now he is in the hands of professionals and hopefully they can bring him some relief. This journey certainly does spin you in many directions.
Please make sure they get it 'right' if they consider releasing him. I relive the last time that Len was sent home from the hospital and how wrong things went. For him they got his medication balanced enough that he could have been released. He had been home on a few day passes and we were able to successfully administer the drugs. He made them promise that he would be clear headed because he had paperwork to get in order and they promised that they wouldn't release him until the pain was minimal and he was clear headed. For some reason unknown to us (I believe it was a shortage of the medication) they decided they wouldn't release him until they switched him over to Methadone. He fought them on this as he was 16 years sober and knew the side effects of Methadone by witnessing many who were on it. They would not back down. It was frightening. It took time and many conversations with the head nurse to to get them to back off on the dosage. After all, being clear headed was the promise made. It was crucial that he could think. Still not very close to the goal, he was told he could come home on a day pass for Father's day. When we went to pick him up, the weekend nurse came in with a bunch of prescriptions and said that he was free to go and that they would hold his bed until Tuesday and if he didn't return then, they would give his bed away. What?! Of course he was thrilled and we were in shock. We were not at all prepared for this. He was not clear headed at all. Anyway, long story but of course he had no intention of going back and was unable to focus on the paperwork that needed to be taken care of no matter how hard he tried. When he was near the end and could no longer take the medication, they switched him back to the original medication that needed to be injected. Unbelievable.
Anyway, the reason I tell you this is please be sure that they get it right if they are considering sending him home. I know how exhausted you are and how badly we want to trust in the medical system but sometimes they get things wrong. I still feel the sadness in how badly things went for us and worry about how many others have gone down this path when they are at their most vulnerable.
Many hugs to you,
Tracie