Hi Tracie,
I’m so happy that you are finally going to have a bit of a financial relief! I cannot believe how long this has taken for you. But at least you can now see the light at the end of the tunnel…still a long ways off, but I’m sure you can see it!
I still can’t believe how your girls talk to you! One day they will realize how much you have done for them and realize how bad their attitude was and is. I know I did with my mom. I think I was about 32 when I realized how much my mom did for our family and how much she gave up to be a stay at home mom; only to have her husband leave her after 22 years for a much older woman! 5 kids and no working skills and too proud to go on welfare! Wow, she is my pillar of strength! I know I got my strength and pride from her.
When we moved here in 2007, we made the decision to put our family first again; when we lived in the NWT the girls were grown up and we were very social and had various groups of friends. So we had to put our family back together and put them first. Because that was our decision, we didn’t make friends here in the city. I have friends here from back home, but they are busy and live a quite a distance away. Also, I can’t give as much as I would like to take, so I’ve decided I must do this on my own. My own girls are going through their own difficulties so I also don’t ask them for any help. I know I told you before, that it is very lonely, especially in the evenings. I haven’t been able to take up my sewing again, and to exercise…hmmmm…well, I haven’t been keeping up with that either. Usually by 9, hubby has finished watching his programs and is ready to start reading so he can fall asleep. Whereas, I go down to the living room and start watching TV! I usually fall asleep on the sofa; some nights he will come and get me and some nights I wake up in the middle of the night and just move to our bed.
I know what you mean about “kick her butt out the door”; however, I will never say those words – some days I wish to say them. But that would create such havoc on our relationship; with the chance of losing our granddaughter…like I said, I wish to say it, but when I’m so frustrated with our daughter and I’m tempted to say it, I just close my mouth, turn and walk away. Knowing full well, that I’m doing the right thing!
We had our winter tires put on our car earlier this week – of course they found something else wrong with the vehicle so we now have an extra cost which we weren’t budgeted for. Vehicles!!!!!!
We will be heading to the mountains next weekend. Our daughter has a concert to go to and we were supposed to watch our granddaughter. Yikes; now she has to ask one of her sisters! AND NO, they do not get along, but like your daughters, they band together when one of them is in trouble.
I keep wanting to start my Christmas shopping; I’m not into it this year. Our granddaughter wants to decorate 3 days before Christmas…LOL…too funny. We usually decorate about 3 weeks before Christmas. It’s going to be interesting this year, as she will now be able to help us and she is quite the helper. I usually bake with her on Saturdays if she is home. Muffins, pancakes or cookies. I’m not too sure about Christmas dinner this year. My mom wants to come down, but that is also around the time my daughter is due. We shall see. I’m going to firm up my plans this weekend and decide what I’m going to do. If I go and see our daughter it will be shortly after Christmas I guess. So many decisions!!!!!!!!!!
Well, your decision about getting a smaller home is best for you; which is what you need to do…think about yourself first and what your future entails!
It’s finally Friday, and I’m so happy. I don’t have any plans for the weekend – probably clean. I was supposed to do that earlier this week, but I was too lazy. I’m feeling kind of lost right now – I think I’m overwhelmed! Also, being house bound is driving me crazy, but I really don’t like doing anything alone. I haven’t taken myself out for dinner in a long time because I now feel guilty about going out and leaving hubby behind. Geesh!!!!!
It’s another gloomy gray day! The clouds are low, so I’m not too sure if it is drizzling or fog. It’s supposed to be cold this weekend…and snowing! I don’t know if I told you, but we have a resident bunny in our back yard. He/she was born there a few years ago, so our yard is its home. It has now turned white, which is quite funny, because all our snow has melted. So it stands out!
Have a great weekend; sending you a great big hug, Deb