Dear Lilbear,
i am glad to see so many writing you and offering help and ideas.
i am wondering how today is going for you, your parents and your young children.
it is really hard to find a way to balance everything and I hear how much you want your kids nearby but how difficult it is to manage.
Hoping that today was not too stressful and wanting you to know that you were on my mind.
if your children are able to visit your Mom - it will I think benefit them all. Your mom will feel uplifted to have them visit even briefly anit although its hard, very hard to know how to handle situations like yours - I am sure your heart will lead your direction and actions.
its really difficult to talk and know what to say and how to say it. Being there, smiling, holding a hand and letting your Mom know how important she is and that she is your focus, is all you really need to do.
Each of us have different life experiences and can identify with your cry for help, your desire to hear what you did was right is natural. We all need a sounding board.
keep venting, keep putting one foot in front of the other is what you need to focus on.
you are in my thoughts.
hoping your mom had a comfortable day too
You are not alone,
sincerely,
NatR