Hey Razz
No news is good news, unless you are a worry wart like me, but keep the fingers crossed.
Sounds like your Mom is ready from all that you have said, not something one wants to really, well think about, though I suppose it is always in the back of our minds, waiting for that time, wishing it would hurry up and end, and hoping too, that it never comes. Us humans are such strange critters.
Being super agressive is something I used to believe in, still do, to a point, but there comes a time when one has to decide, if those extra days are for us, or for them? Pushing hard, being aggressive only gives the one we care for, added stress, added grief, and as much as we want them to not give up, it is their choice, not ours to make. Something you might have to impress upon the more aggressive minded offspring.
Bottom line is, you try and hope you do the best you can, and give them some peace in their final moments. It truly is heartbreaking to watch, to suffer through when every fibre of your instincts is wanting to scream out for them to keep fighting, but it is their choice.
There are no words to make the coming days/weeks/ whatever easier, other than to say that you are doing your best, and somewhere, somehow, it is being noted. All you can do, is keep on with what you are doing, let the grandkids know the details, prepare them, and just take it one moment at a time.
Hugs and Prayers for you
Ian